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OpenSacredLove offers a magical, safe, and supportive space for couples to explore open relating and intimacy. Through immersive events and personalized coaching sessions, we guide you to connect with yourselves and others authentically.
Our events are designed for committed couples of all relationship durations interested in exploring open relating or experiencing the magic of a shared, sacred space. Whether you're new to non-monogamy or seasoned explorers, you're welcome here. Even if you don't intend to open your relationship, you can still enjoy the deep connection and intimacy fostered in our events.
All participants must be 18 years or older.
Our events are designed to be sex-positive experiences that celebrate sacred sexuality for couples within a unique conceptual framework. It's important to understand that OpenSacredLove is a concept – a framework for exploring intimacy and connection. While we welcome and embrace sexual exploration, we want to emphasize that it's not mandatory. Our focus is on creating a safe and supportive space for all forms of intimacy, from deep connection and sensual exploration to passionate encounters.
Here are a few things to keep in mind:
Age Requirement: All participants must be 18 years or older.
Sex-Positive Environment: Our events are open to and welcoming of sexual exploration. It's important to be comfortable in an environment where others may choose to engage in sexual activity.
Personal Responsibility: You are responsible for your own experience at our events. We encourage you to communicate your boundaries clearly, respect the boundaries of others, and prioritize your comfort and safety.
If you're drawn to explore intimacy in a safe, sacred space, then OpenSacredLove may be the perfect place for you. However, if a sex-positive environment isn't something you're comfortable with, we encourage you to consider whether our events align with your needs and preferences.
The cost varies depending on the specific event or coaching package. Please refer to the event details on our website or contact us for pricing information.
Our cancellation policy varies depending on the event or coaching package. Please refer to the event details or contact us for specific information.
Please feel free to contact us with any further questions you may have. We're always happy to help!
Our events typically involve a combination of workshops, exercises, and free-flow exploration in a sacred space designed to foster connection and intimacy. We prioritize clear communication, consent, and respect for boundaries at all times. You can also expect intimacy, varying levels of nudity, and a wide range of intimate interactions. It is an open and safe space to explore sexuality with your partner and other couples.
To ensure a safe and supportive environment for all participants, we have a pre-selection process in place. This means there will be a personal call before you're approved to participate, unless you've received a direct invitation from Tente. This allows us to assess whether the event is a good fit for you and answer any questions you may have. After you receive an official invitation, you can purchase your ticket.
For those with no or very little experience with open relating, we recommend signing up for "Open Love 101: Foundations for Conscious Non-Monogamy." There will still be a short call for this event, but the experience requirements are less stringent.
Our events are designed for couples in an intimate relationship. The intention of "hunting" for a partner within the event, with whom you do not have an intimate relationship, is a reason for denying an invitation. Please keep in mind that couples are not required to open up to others at our events. If your intention is solely to explore intimacy with your partner, that is perfectly fine. However, if you are seeking events open to singles, there are many other options available, but OpenSacredLove is not one of them.
Unfortunately, no. Our events are designed for couples to attend together and require both partners to participate fully. This ensures we maintain a safe and supportive environment for everyone.
We understand that unforeseen circumstances may arise. If your partner cannot attend, please contact us. While we cannot offer refunds, we're happy to discuss alternative solutions or transfer your registration to a future event (if possible).
Comfortable clothing is recommended for workshops and exercises. For our temple space, we encourage you to bring your most sensual and erotic outfit.
Please bring your preferred protection (condoms, oils), and any intimate accessories you may wish to use. We also recommend bringing a water bottle, a sarong, and any personal items you may need. Some events may require you to bring your own food. Please refer to the event details or contact us if you need further information.
Hygiene: To ensure a pleasant experience for all, please prioritize personal hygiene. This includes showering or bathing before attending, brushing your teeth and maintaining fresh breath, and refraining from wearing strong scents. We also encourage the use of condoms and appropriate lubricants to maintain sexual health. Please opt for non-staining oils without strong scents. Consider organic coconut oil, jojoba oil, or dedicated intimate lubricants that are gentle on the skin.
Consent: Remember, consent is essential for any intimate interaction, including the use of condoms or oils. Please discuss any concerns or preferences with your partner and any other couples you choose to engage with before any physical contact.
To ensure a pleasant experience for all, please prioritize personal hygiene. This includes showering or bathing before attending, brushing your teeth and maintaining fresh breath, and refraining from wearing strong scents. We also encourage the use of condoms and appropriate lubricants to maintain sexual health. Please opt for non-staining oils without strong scents. Consider organic coconut oil, jojoba oil, or dedicated intimate lubricants that are gentle on the skin.
We understand that unforeseen circumstances may sometimes make it difficult to meet these hygiene expectations fully. If a situation arises where you cannot adequately address a hygiene concern, please inform a facilitator immediately. We will do our best to assist in finding a solution. However, if a resolution cannot be reached, and a participant's hygiene is deemed unacceptable, we may request that they leave the event. In such cases, no refund will be granted.
Please refrain from bringing vibrating or noisy toys, as these can disrupt the peaceful atmosphere. Do not bring a towel when a sarong is requested; for aesthetic purposes, a towel will not be allowed. We encourage everyone to contribute to the harmonious atmosphere of the space. Also, no open flames are allowed.
While we cannot mandate STI testing, we strongly recommend it.
Open and honest communication about sexual health is crucial for creating a safe and comfortable space for all participants. Please discuss your sexual histories and any potential risks with your partner and any other couples you choose to engage with. Recent STI test results provide peace of mind and demonstrate respect for yourself and others. If you have any doubts about someone's sexual health or hygiene practices, please prioritize your well-being and choose not to engage.
Remember, your health and safety are paramount. Intimate connection is a beautiful experience, and taking precautions ensures you can fully embrace the magic with your partner.
The Temple Playroom is a dedicated space for free-flow exploration and connection. It's a safe and sacred space where you can explore intimacy and sensuality at your own pace, whether with your partner or other couples. The space is supervised by experienced facilitators who ensure everyone's safety and comfort.
OpenSacredLove events are designed to explore various levels of intimacy, and that can include sex. However, it's important to understand a few things:
Phased Approach: We use a phased approach in our events. Some workshops and activities may have restrictions on sexual or intimate interactions to help you build connection and trust before engaging physically.
Sacred Space: Our focus is on creating a sacred space for couples to explore intimacy together or with others. While sex can be a part of that exploration, we encourage you to embrace the full range of intimate connections possible.
Not a Swingers' Event: OpenSacredLove is not a sex party, organized orgy, or swingers' club. If your primary intention is purely casual sex, our events might not be the right fit.
At OpenSacredLove, we prioritize consent, respect, and creating a safe space for authentic expression. We encourage you to make love consciously, honoring your desires and boundaries.
Our events have specific rules and guidelines to ensure a safe and respectful environment for all participants. These include guidelines on consent, communication, safety, respect, and confidentiality. Please refer to the Participation Agreement for detailed information.
Facilitators are experienced professionals who help guide and support participants during events. They are not participants in the sexual explorations and maintain professional boundaries at all times. Sexual interactions with facilitators are strictly prohibited. Please be respectful towards their role in the space.
The use of phones, cameras, or any recording devices is strictly prohibited within the event space to protect the anonymity and privacy of all participants. This includes audio devices.
At OpenSacredLove, we have a strong emphasis on consent. Clear, honest, and ongoing communication is essential for navigating intimate interactions.
All interactions must be based on enthusiastic agreement. Explicit consent must be obtained before any physical or intimate interaction, and it can be revoked at any time. OpenSacredLove has a zero-tolerance policy regarding any behavior that violates the principles of consent. Harassment, pressure, coercion, or any form of violence will not be tolerated.
Any participant who engages in behavior that violates consent will be asked to leave the event immediately and without a refund, and may be banned from future events. The severity of the violation will determine the specific consequences, ranging from removal from the event to a permanent ban from all future OpenSacredLove events.
Our facilitators are trained to support participants in navigating consent and creating a safe and comfortable environment. They are available to address any concerns or questions you may have.
We understand that navigating consent can be nuanced. However Please refrain from using strategies to push or test someone's boundaries without their prior consent, or crossing someone's boundaries to please your own desires. This will be considered unacceptable behavior and may result in being banned from future events. Apologizing afterward will not change the outcome.
For a comprehensive understanding of our consent policies and guidelines, please refer to the Participation Agreement.
OpenSacredLove takes all accusations of boundary violations very seriously. We understand that navigating consent and boundaries can be complex, and sometimes individuals may not be fully aware of their own limits or may misinterpret the actions of others.
Support and Education: If a situation arises where there is confusion or a misunderstanding about boundaries, our facilitators will provide support and guidance to help involved parties understand what happened and how to prevent similar situations in the future. This may include resources on consent, communication, and boundary setting.
Accountability for All: While we acknowledge that misunderstandings can occur, participants are expected to take responsibility for their own actions and communication. Attempts to manipulate situations or misuse rules to harm others will not be tolerated. This includes, but is not limited to, making false accusations, misrepresenting events, or using emotional manipulation to influence others or avoid accountability.
Due Process: If a participant is accused of violating another person's boundaries, our facilitators will conduct a fair and impartial inquiry to determine what occurred. This may involve speaking with both parties involved and any potential witnesses. We approach these situations with compassion and understanding, recognizing that everyone involved may be experiencing a range of emotions.
Consequences for False Accusations: If it is determined that an accusation is false or made with malicious intent, the accuser may face consequences, including removal from the event and/or being banned from future events.
We recognize that dealing with boundary violations can be emotionally challenging. If you find yourself in a situation that feels uncomfortable or unsafe, please speak to a facilitator immediately. A designated safe zone is available at all times where any participant can take a break and receive emotional support from trained staff. We are committed to creating a safe, respectful, and supportive environment for all participants.
To ensure the safety and well-being of all participants, substance use, including alcohol and any type of drug, is strictly prohibited during our events. If we suspect a participant is under the influence, the couple will be denied participation, even if only one person is suspected, with no refund provided. Please refrain from consuming any alcohol or drugs before attending a OpenSacredLove event, as even the slightest smell on the breath will be enough to deny participation.
We have a zero-tolerance policy for any behavior that violates our principles of consent, respect, or safety. This includes any form of harassment, discrimination, aggression, or violence. Participants who violate the rules or guidelines will be asked to leave the event without a refund.
OpenSacredLove does not take illegal behavior lightly. To protect the safety and quality of our events, we will not hesitate to take legal action if required. Any violation of privacy or sexual harassment may result in legal repercussions. We have a "no second chance" policy to ensure the safety and well-being of all participants. Any wrongdoing will have direct consequences.
By accessing and using OpenSacredLove (the "Website"), you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to be bound by these Terms and Conditions. If you disagree with any part of the terms, you may not access the Website.
a. You may be required to create an account to access certain features of the Website.
b. You are responsible for maintaining the confidentiality of your account information and for all activities that occur under your account.
c. You agree to provide accurate and complete information when creating an account.
a. You may be able to submit, post, or display content on the Website ("User Content").
b. You retain all rights in your User Content, but you grant OpenSacredLove a non-exclusive, royalty-free license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, distribute, and display your User Content in connection with the Website.
c. You are solely responsible for your User Content and agree not to submit content that is illegal, offensive, defamatory, or infringes the rights of others. You represent and warrant that you have all necessary rights to grant the license in this section.
You agree not to:
a. The Website and its content, features, and functionality are owned by OpenSacredLove and are protected by copyright, trademark, and other intellectual property laws.
b. You may not use the Website's content without permission.
a. The Website is provided "as is" without any warranties of any kind, express or implied, including but not limited to warranties of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, and non-infringement.
b. OpenSacredLove does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of the Website's content.
a. To the fullest extent permitted by law, OpenSacredLove shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages arising out of or related to your use of the Website.
b. Nothing in these Terms and Conditions excludes or limits OpenSacredLove's liability for fraud, intentional misconduct, gross negligence, or for death or personal injury caused by its negligence.
You agree to indemnify and hold OpenSacredLove harmless from any claims, losses, damages, liabilities, costs, and expenses (including reasonable attorney's fees) arising out of or related to your use of the Website, your User Content, or your violation of these Terms and Conditions.
OpenSacredLove may terminate your access to the Website at any time for any reason, with or without notice. You may also terminate your account at any time.
These Terms and Conditions shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of Belgium. Any dispute arising out of or relating to these Terms and Conditions shall be subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of Belgium.
OpenSacredLove may update these Terms and Conditions from time to time. We will post any changes on the Website and, if the changes are significant, we may also notify you by email. Your continued use of the Website following the posting of revised Terms and Conditions constitutes your acceptance of the changes.
Participation in any OpenSacredLove event is subject to the separate Participation Agreement, which will be sent to you via email upon registration. You must sign and return the Participation Agreement before attending the event. By participating in an event, you agree to abide by the terms of this Agreement, including the Code of Conduct, which emphasizes consent, respect, and clear communication. OpenSacredLove reserves the right to refuse participation or remove any individual from an event who violates the Participation Agreement or whose behavior compromises the safety or well-being of others. To the extent permitted by law, OpenSacredLove is not liable for any incidents, injuries, or losses that may occur during events. All participants are responsible for their own choices and actions.
You must be at least 18 years old to access and use this Website and to participate in any OpenSacredLove events. By accessing the Website or participating in events, you represent and warrant that you are 18 years of age or older.
a. Participants acknowledge that OpenSacredLove events are designed to be sex-positive experiences, where sacred sexuality is celebrated within a unique conceptual framework.
b. While sexual exploration is welcomed and embraced, it is not mandatory. Participants are free to engage in any form of intimacy that feels comfortable and safe for them, including deep connection, sensual exploration, or passionate encounters.
c. Participants understand that OpenSacredLove fosters a safe and supportive space for all forms of intimacy, and they agree to respect the choices and boundaries of others.
d. Participants are encouraged to communicate their own boundaries clearly and to prioritize their comfort and safety throughout the event.
If you have any questions about these Terms and Conditions, please contact us at info@opensacredlove.com.
Important Note: This Terms and Conditions is a separate document from our Privacy Policy. Please ensure you read both documents carefully.
OpenSacredLove ("we," "us," or "our") is committed to protecting the privacy of our website visitors and event participants. This Privacy Policy outlines how we collect, use, and disclose personal data in compliance with Belgian and EU data protection laws, including the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR).
We may collect the following types of personal data:
We may use your personal data for the following purposes:
We process your personal data based on the following legal grounds:
We may disclose your personal data to the following third parties:
We take appropriate technical and organizational measures to protect your personal data against unauthorized access, disclosure, alteration, or destruction.
You have the following rights regarding your personal data:
If you have any questions about this Privacy Policy or your data protection rights, please contact us at info@opensacredlove.com.
We may update this Privacy Policy from time to time. We will post any changes on our website, and if the changes are significant, we may also notify you by email.
Important Note: This Privacy Policy is a separate document from our Terms and Conditions. Please ensure you read both documents carefully.