Before You Apply
Silver Key is the membership layer for people who want an ongoing path into OSL's White and Red spaces without repeating the same screening for every event.
Fee
€50 once
Requested by SEPA after approval.
Credit
€50 back on your first event
Valid for 1 year after approval.
Unlocks
White Temple, Red Temple, open workshops
Plus community spaces, 10% off, and priority registration.
Review
48-72 hours after submission
Possible outcomes include approval, follow-up, or decline before payment.
Public path
- Choose the event you want
- Submit the event-specific screening
- Wait for OSL to review that request
- Use the Hipsy link if approval is needed first
Silver Key path
- Submit one Silver Key application with 4 written answers
- Digitally sign the Participation Agreement
- Wait 48-72 hours for OSL review and SEPA request if approved
- Use ongoing White, Red, and workshop access with member benefits
Silver Key is not an event ticket. It gives you ongoing eligibility for White Temple, Red Temple, and open workshops. Event tickets are still purchased separately.
How Silver Key Review Works
We use this application to assess fit, consent literacy, and readiness for shared intimate spaces. The goal is a safer room, clearer expectations, and a better fit for everyone involved.
Step 1: Read and sign the agreement
Review the Participation Agreement and digitally sign it before review.
Step 2: Submit the application
Answer the 4 Silver Key questions with enough detail for us to understand your boundaries, desires, and intentions.
Step 3: OSL reviews before payment
Review starts after submission. If approved, we send a SEPA transfer request for the €50 Silver Key fee.
Step 4: Pay by SEPA after approval
After we confirm your transfer manually, your €50 fee becomes €50 credit toward your first event and we prepare fulfilment.
What we evaluate
- How you communicate boundaries, desire, and limits
- How you respond to a no or a change of pace
- Whether you want a curated community rather than anonymous access
- Whether White and Red spaces match your current readiness
Possible outcomes
- Approval and a SEPA payment request
- A request for a short call or more information
- A decline before any payment is requested
- Reapplication possible after 3 months
Need Context Before You Apply?
Read the Guides first
If you are still orienting to Temple culture, conscious sexuality, or the difference between the public path and membership, start with the Guides. They make the language, pacing, and progression model much easier to understand.
Silver Key Application
Complete this application carefully. Review begins after submission, and payment is requested by SEPA only if your application is approved.
Read and digitally sign the Participation Agreement.
OSL reviews the unpaid application first.
Expect a response within 48-72 hours after submission.
We send a SEPA transfer request for the €50 fee.
Frequently asked before applying
Is Silver Key the same as buying a ticket?
No. Silver Key gives you ongoing eligibility for White Temple, Red Temple, and open workshops, plus member benefits. Event tickets are still purchased separately.
What happens after I submit?
We review Silver Key applications within 48-72 hours. You may be approved and sent a SEPA payment request, asked for a short call or more information, or declined before payment.
What if my application is not approved?
During the interim SEPA flow, payment is requested only after approval, so no refund is normally needed. You can reapply after 3 months.
Can Silver Key get me into Dark Temple?
No. Dark Temple remains a deeper tier. Silver Key helps you build the track record and community context that may eventually support that progression.
What if I am not ready yet?
That is a useful result too. If membership is not the right next step, we will usually suggest an easier entry point such as the White Temple, a public event, or an intimacy coaching session first.
Questions first? Use the contact form.
Not ready for Silver Key? Start with a public event or open workshop.