Event Screening
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Screened Event Path
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OpenSacredLove offers screened, intentional spaces for singles and couples to explore conscious sexuality, intimacy, and embodied connection. Through immersive events, the Silver Key membership path, and personalized intimacy coaching, we help people enter the right room with more clarity, consent, and care.
OSL is for adults who want a curated, sex-positive space with clear consent standards, screening, and accountability. Some events welcome singles, some are specifically duo or couple formats, and some deeper rooms require prior context or advanced screening. If you are attending solo, you need to be comfortable owning your own pace. If you are attending with a partner, you are expected to protect the integrity of that connection while respecting the room around you.
If you are orienting yourself first, start with the Guides or the Temple Nights overview.
All participants must be 18 years or older.
OSL events are sex-positive, screened, and intentionally held. Some are workshops, some are Temple Night tiers, some welcome singles, and some are specifically duo or couple events. Sexual exploration may be present, but it is never mandatory. The point is not to perform or prove anything. The point is to enter a room where consent, pacing, and responsibility are taken seriously.
Here are a few things to keep in mind:
Age Requirement: All participants must be 18 years or older.
Sex-Positive Environment: Our events are open to and welcoming of sexual exploration. It's important to be comfortable in an environment where others may choose to engage in sexual activity.
Personal Responsibility: You are responsible for your own experience at our events. We encourage you to communicate your boundaries clearly, respect the boundaries of others, and prioritize your comfort and safety.
If you are drawn to explore intimacy in a screened, intentional environment, OpenSacredLove may be a strong fit. However, if a sex-positive environment is not something you are comfortable with, we encourage you to read the Temple Nights guide and the before deciding whether our events align with your needs and preferences.
The cost varies depending on the specific event or coaching package. Please refer to the event details, the coaching page, or the contact form if you need help choosing the right next step.
Our cancellation policy varies depending on the event or coaching package. Please refer to the event details or use the contact form for specific questions.
Please use the contact form with your question. If you want to orient yourself first, the Guides and Temple Nights pages cover the main entry questions.
That depends on the format. OSL events can include guided exercises, ritual openings, workshops, structured social connection, and free-flow exploration in an intentionally held space. You can expect clear consent culture, facilitators present in the room, varying levels of nudity depending on the event, and a wide range of possible experiences from observation to explicit erotic expression.
Some people attend solo, some attend as couples, and some events only allow duo registrations. The clearest overview is on the Temple Nights page, and upcoming formats are listed on the events calendar.
That depends on your current level of comfort with sensuality, erotic charge, and kink. White Temple is the best Temple entry for people who want to stay closer to sensuality and softer pacing. Red Temple moves further into erotic and sexual charge. Dark Temple is for people who are already comfortable with kink, stronger edges, and a much higher level of intensity.
If even Temple exposure feels like too much right now, start with a White workshop first. If you are a complete beginner, Presence in Love is the softest starting point. It is lightly sensual, connection-led, and gives people time to adapt to the intensity gradually.
Yes. All OSL events use screening or pre-approved membership access. Depending on the room, that can mean event-by-event review, Silver Key access, or a deeper readiness process. Some applicants are approved directly, some are asked for more information or a short call, and some are guided toward a better entry point first.
Bookings are capped at 2 tickets. Some events go directly to Hipsy for ticketing, while screened events require OSL approval before the ticket link is shared. Public 2-ticket screened bookings require screening for both attendees. Silver Key holders may book one partner guest on eligible events without separate screening, but the keyholder remains responsible for that guest.
For those with no or very little experience with open relating, we recommend starting with the White Temple, the Guides, or the membership application if you already know you want a screened entry path.
If the event welcomes singles, yes, you may attend solo or alongside a friend within the 2-ticket booking limit. Public pair bookings for screened events require both of you to complete screening before the Hipsy ticket link is shared. If one of you is already a Silver Key holder, that person may book one partner guest for eligible events without separate screening and remains responsible for that guest in the room. What is not welcome is using the event to hunt for a partner with whom you do not already have a real connection or to approach the room with entitlement.
If you come alone, the expectation is that you are genuinely able to stay with your own experience even if no erotic or romantic connection unfolds. In single-friendly rooms we create environments that make meeting easier, but we never guarantee a match. Sometimes the deepest moment is simply being present with yourself.
If the event is marked as a duo or couple format, then you must come in the format that event requires.
For duo or couple events, usually no. Those rooms are designed for both partners to attend together, and a couple ticket is normally not converted automatically into a solo entry.
For single-friendly events, the answer depends on the event format, the ticket type, and the balance of the room. In some cases a person from a couple booking may still be able to attend alone, but that is never automatic and must be cleared with us first. This also applies when a Silver Key holder has used the second ticket for a partner guest.
If your partner cannot attend, please use the contact form. We will look at the event structure and let you know what is possible, including transfer options when available.
Comfortable clothing is recommended for workshops and exercises. For our temple space, we encourage you to bring your most sensual and erotic outfit.
Please bring your preferred protection (condoms, oils), and any intimate accessories you may wish to use. We also recommend bringing a water bottle, a sarong, and any personal items you may need. Some events may require you to bring your own food. Please refer to the event details or use the contact form if you need further information.
Hygiene: To ensure a pleasant experience for all, please prioritize personal hygiene. This includes showering or bathing before attending, brushing your teeth and maintaining fresh breath, and refraining from wearing strong scents. We also encourage the use of condoms and appropriate lubricants to maintain sexual health. Please opt for non-staining oils without strong scents. Consider organic coconut oil, jojoba oil, or dedicated intimate lubricants that are gentle on the skin.
Consent: Remember, consent is essential for any intimate interaction, including the use of condoms or oils. Please discuss any concerns or preferences with your partner or anyone else you may choose to engage with before any physical contact.
Please refrain from bringing vibrating or noisy toys, as these can disrupt the peaceful atmosphere. Do not bring a towel when a sarong is requested; for aesthetic purposes, a towel will not be allowed. We encourage everyone to contribute to the harmonious atmosphere of the space. Also, no open flames are allowed.
While we cannot mandate STI testing, we strongly recommend it.
Open and honest communication about sexual health is crucial for creating a safe and comfortable space for all participants. Please discuss your sexual histories and any potential risks with your partner or anyone else you choose to engage with. Recent STI test results provide peace of mind and demonstrate respect for yourself and others. If you have any doubts about someone's sexual health or hygiene practices, please prioritize your well-being and choose not to engage.
Remember, your health and safety are paramount. Intimate connection is a beautiful experience, and taking precautions helps protect both you and everyone else in the room.
OpenSacredLove events are designed to explore various levels of intimacy, and that can include sex. However, it's important to understand a few things:
Phased Approach: We use a phased approach in our events. Sexual or intimate interaction is only permitted when the format of a specific event allows it and when facilitators explicitly open that level of contact.
Held Environment: Our focus is on creating an intentional environment where singles and couples can explore intimacy with awareness, consent, and pacing. While sex can be a part of that exploration, we encourage you to embrace the full range of intimate connections possible.
Not a Swingers' Event: OpenSacredLove is not a sex party, organized orgy, or swingers' club. If your primary intention is purely casual sex, our events might not be the right fit.
At OpenSacredLove, we prioritize consent, respect, and creating a safe space for authentic expression. Event-specific boundaries always apply, and some experiences remain sensual without opening into sexual activity at all.
OSL is not a platform for tribalism, activism, or political expression. We invite responsible adults who know their own boundaries, communicate them clearly, and make a real effort to read and respect the boundaries of others. If you are unsure, ask. Asking is simple, mature, and expected.
We do not accept manipulative or predatory behavior used to avoid accountability. That includes dismissing another person's boundary, deflecting responsibility with excuses such as “I did not know” or “I saw it differently,” or weaponizing identity, religion, race, gender, or ideology to justify blaming, pressure, or victimhood dynamics. Behavior that undermines consent, responsibility, or the safety of the room can lead to immediate removal or a permanent ban.
Facilitators are experienced professionals who help guide and support participants during events. They are not participants in the sexual explorations and maintain professional boundaries at all times. Sexual interactions with facilitators are strictly prohibited. Please be respectful towards their role in the space.
Alcohol and drugs of any kind are strictly prohibited before and during OSL events. If we suspect a participant is under the influence, that person may be denied entry or removed immediately, without refund.
Depending on the event format, ticket type, and impact on the room, this can also affect their partner or the full booking. Even the slightest smell of alcohol on the breath can be enough for us to stop participation.
This agreement exists to protect everyone's experience. OSL events are intimate, vulnerable spaces — and that requires clear agreements. Everything below ensures we maintain the quality, safety, and consciousness that makes OSL what it is.
Applies to: Temple Nights, workshops, Silver Key membership, and all related event spaces
Last updated: May 2026
Participation at Open Sacred Love requires consent that is informed, freely given, specific, and revocable at any time. Silence, ambiguity, social pressure, intoxication, or prior interaction do not count as consent. A yes to one interaction is not a yes to the next one.
If someone says no, hesitates, freezes, pulls away, or signals uncertainty — the interaction stops. Arguing, testing, persuading, pressuring, manipulating, or retrying without clear re-initiation is not acceptable. Every participant is responsible for tracking both verbal and non-verbal feedback.
This is not a room for political campaigning, activism, religious proselytizing, ideological recruitment, tribalism, social posturing, or pushing beliefs onto others. Do not use identity, religion, politics, gender, race, or ideology as leverage to pressure others, avoid accountability, or dominate the room. The focus here is embodied experience, not persuasion.
Do not turn an interaction into a gender, race, religion, ideology, or identity issue. If you find yourself reading offence or triggers into the behaviour of those around you, consider that the interpretation may be yours. The energy at OSL is one of presence and direct experience — not of manifesting drama through the over-analysis of others' words or actions. Come to experience, not to find proof.
What is seen, heard, or shared inside an OSL container stays private unless explicit permission is given otherwise. Photos, videos, audio recordings, and other unauthorized device use are prohibited. Any unauthorized recording or distribution of images or audio from the Space is a violation of privacy and may result in legal action. Protecting the discretion of other participants is a condition of attendance.
Zero tolerance: No alcohol or drugs are permitted before or during OSL events. Violations result in immediate removal without refund. Participants are expected to arrive clean, prepared, and able to take responsibility for their physical and emotional state. Hygiene, safer-sex decisions, hydration, pacing, and personal boundary awareness remain the responsibility of each attendee.
Facilitators are present to protect the quality and safety of the room. In most situations, facilitator direction takes the form of an invitation — a gentle redirection, a quiet check-in, or a suggestion to slow down. This is not a controlled environment; you are free to move through your own journey. However, when safety, consent, or the integrity of the space is at stake — for example when a conflict is rising, a boundary is being crossed, or an interaction needs to stop — facilitator guidance becomes binding. In those moments you are expected to comply immediately. Continued participation is conditional on being open to that guidance when it matters.
Open Sacred Love reserves the right to deny entry, remove participants, or revoke membership access when behavior undermines safety, consent, confidentiality, or the culture of the space. Attempts to manipulate situations or misuse rules to harm others — even under the guise of victimhood — are treated as violations. Specific grounds for immediate removal and revocation without refund are listed below under Access & Screening.
This Participation Agreement applies to all OSL events as a baseline. Certain events operate within a distinct framework and carry their own supplementary agreement that extends, narrows, or modifies parts of this general agreement. Where a supplementary agreement applies, it is presented separately, signed independently before access is confirmed, and takes precedence over the relevant parts of this document. You will always know what you are signing before you commit. Reading and understanding each supplementary agreement before signing is your responsibility. This applies equally to participants, facilitators, performers, and assistants.
No open flames of any kind. Candles, incense, or other fire sources are prohibited unless provided and controlled by the organizers in designated areas.
Sexual interaction with facilitators is strictly prohibited. For certain events, a facilitator may offer a demonstration or act as a guide within the group — through energy, presence, or example — to help set a tone or direction. Any such participation remains entirely within the frame of sensuality, not sexuality, and within the boundaries of their professional role. Facilitators maintain clear professional boundaries at all times.
At select events, trained assistants (called Angels, Priestesses, or similar thematic names) may be present to support the experience through presence, energy work, guided touch, or facilitation — always within clear consent and ethical professional practice. Some events include performers or special guests who contribute to the immersive design through performance art or thematic presence. At certain events, some bodyworkers may offer their professional services directly to participants for personal exploration — this is always announced at the event and discussed directly. Do not assume all assistants, performers, or guests offer this service. These are professional bodywork services, not escort services. All event staff are independent professionals who define their own limits and can withdraw from any interaction at any time. There is no entitlement to their time or energy.
If a difficult dynamic surfaces for you — a conflict, a trigger, an interaction that doesn't sit right — disengage rather than escalate, and give a visible signal to a facilitator or team member. We will reach you. If needed, a facilitator will support you in determining the next steps, which may include moving to a more appropriate space where things can be addressed without disturbing the harmony of the room or the experience of others.
Some events require screening before ticket purchase or attendance, while other events may allow direct ticket purchase through the external ticketing platform named on the event page. Silver Key holders are pre-approved for eligible White, Red, and open workshop access after initial application, approval, payment confirmation, and key fulfilment. Non-keyholders may be asked to apply per event and may be declined based on alignment with OSL values. OSL may request a call, ask for additional information, or decline participation before sharing a screened event ticket link.
Event bookings are limited to a maximum of 2 tickets per booking.
For certain events, OSL maintains gender balance among single attendees to ensure a comfortable atmosphere. This may result in limited availability for one gender if balance has been reached. Partnered attendees are not subject to this limitation.
Some events are designed exclusively for duos/couples. Only duo tickets are available for public sale. A limited number of solo tickets may be made available exclusively to Silver Key holders for these events.
Your application answers and your actual behavior at events must align. Significant misalignment between what you represent in your application and how you show up can result in Key revocation and denial of future access.
Your Key can be revoked immediately and without refund for:
Participation in OpenSacredLove is voluntary and at the Participant's own risk. OSL makes every effort to create and hold a physically and emotionally safe environment. However, safety cannot be guaranteed. No facilitator or organizer can control every interaction or predict the behavior of every individual present. We take responsibility for doing our best — we cannot take responsibility for outcomes that result from individual choices or actions beyond our reasonable control.
To continue an OSL application or screened event request, sign this Participation Agreement here inside the modal. This signature is attached before review and before any SEPA or Hipsy booking step.
By accessing and using OpenSacredLove (the "Website"), you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to be bound by these Terms and Conditions. If you disagree with any part of the terms, you may not access the Website.
a. You may be required to create an account to access certain features of the Website.
b. You are responsible for maintaining the confidentiality of your account information and for all activities that occur under your account.
c. You agree to provide accurate and complete information when creating an account.
a. You may be able to submit, post, or display content on the Website ("User Content").
b. You retain all rights in your User Content, but you grant OpenSacredLove a non-exclusive, royalty-free license to use, reproduce, modify, adapt, publish, translate, distribute, and display your User Content in connection with the Website.
c. You are solely responsible for your User Content and agree not to submit content that is illegal, offensive, defamatory, or infringes the rights of others. You represent and warrant that you have all necessary rights to grant the license in this section.
You agree not to:
a. The Website and its content, features, and functionality are owned by OpenSacredLove and are protected by copyright, trademark, and other intellectual property laws.
b. You may not use the Website's content without permission.
a. The Website is provided "as is" without any warranties of any kind, express or implied, including but not limited to warranties of merchantability, fitness for a particular purpose, and non-infringement.
b. OpenSacredLove does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of the Website's content.
a. To the fullest extent permitted by law, OpenSacredLove shall not be liable for any indirect, incidental, special, consequential, or punitive damages arising out of or related to your use of the Website.
b. Nothing in these Terms and Conditions excludes or limits OpenSacredLove's liability for fraud, intentional misconduct, gross negligence, or for death or personal injury caused by its negligence.
You agree to indemnify and hold OpenSacredLove harmless from any claims, losses, damages, liabilities, costs, and expenses (including reasonable attorney's fees) arising out of or related to your use of the Website, your User Content, or your violation of these Terms and Conditions.
OpenSacredLove may terminate your access to the Website at any time for any reason, with or without notice. You may also terminate your account at any time.
These Terms and Conditions shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of Belgium. Any dispute arising out of or relating to these Terms and Conditions shall be subject to the exclusive jurisdiction of the courts of Belgium.
OpenSacredLove may update these Terms and Conditions from time to time. We will post any changes on the Website and, if the changes are significant, we may also notify you by email. Your continued use of the Website following the posting of revised Terms and Conditions constitutes your acceptance of the changes.
Participation in any OpenSacredLove event is subject to the separate Participation Agreement. Where required, participants must read and digitally sign that agreement during the relevant application, screening, or membership flow before screened ticket access or attendance, as instructed. By participating in an event, you agree to abide by that agreement, including the rules on consent, respect, discretion, and participant responsibility. OpenSacredLove reserves the right to refuse participation or remove any individual whose behavior compromises the safety or quality of the room. To the extent permitted by law, OpenSacredLove is not liable for incidents, injuries, or losses arising from a participant's own choices or conduct during events.
You must be at least 18 years old to access and use this Website and to participate in any OpenSacredLove events. By accessing the Website or participating in events, you represent and warrant that you are 18 years of age or older.
a. Participants acknowledge that OpenSacredLove events are designed to be sex-positive experiences, where immersive sensual connections are celebrated within a unique conceptual framework.
b. While sexual exploration is welcomed and embraced, it is not mandatory. Participants are free to engage in any form of intimacy that feels comfortable and safe for them, including deep connection, sensual exploration, or passionate encounters.
c. Participants understand that OpenSacredLove fosters a safe and supportive space for all forms of intimacy, and they agree to respect the choices and boundaries of others.
d. Participants are encouraged to communicate their own boundaries clearly and to prioritize their comfort and safety throughout the event.
If you have any questions about these Terms and Conditions, please use the contact form.
Important Note: This Terms and Conditions is a separate document from our Privacy Policy. Please ensure you read both documents carefully.
Controller: Open Sacred Love, operated by Tente
Contact: Use the contact form
Last updated: May 2026
Open Sacred Love ("we", "us", "our") is committed to protecting your personal data and respecting your privacy. This policy explains what information we collect across opensacredlove.com, why we collect it, and your rights under GDPR.
Key Applications: Full name, email, phone, age, gender, relationship status, a face photo for identity verification, and screening responses.
Events & Newsletters: Name, email, registration or screening type, external ticketing reference where provided, and screening responses where applicable. Newsletter subscriptions store your email and signup date.
Technical Data: IP address and browser type are logged for security and performance purposes.
We process data for contract performance (applications, event management, key delivery), legitimate interest (community safety screening, security), consent (newsletters), and legal obligation (financial records).
We use only essential cookies for secure login/sessions and preference cookies for consent. No third-party tracking (like Google Analytics) is used without explicit consent.
Data is shared only with essential processors: our email delivery provider, our EU-based hosting provider, our banking provider for SEPA transfer administration, and Hipsy when you use external event ticketing. Future payment providers such as Paddle or Mollie will be named here before they are activated.
You have the right to access, rectify, erase, restrict, or object to the processing of your data, as well as the right to data portability and withdrawal of consent.
If you want to access your data, correct it, or request erasure, use the contact form and state that your message is a privacy request.
We may need to verify your identity before acting on the request. Once confirmed, we will respond through the same contact channel and explain the next step.
We use HTTPS/TLS, hashed passwords (scrypt), JWT sessions, and rate limiting. Data is stored within the EU/EEA or via Standard Contractual Clauses.
For GDPR requests and general inquiries, please use the contact form.
Authority: Belgian Data Protection Authority